Comfort can be dangerous

Hi all, its been a while I did want to write more but sometimes time gets ahead of you..... First I think I just want to begin with trust and friendship, anything that's done in life with a partner be it a business, relationship or just a friendship the most basic element is trust. I guess after this week I have learnt the hard way. So since the engagement what's been happening, obviously the next step for us looking at wedding plans and how to manage something that is almost its own niche industry now. The amount spent on one is huge and congrats to all the people who are married this year or will be getting married....... The biggest issue was finding a venue its a pain in the a$$ for the limitations we had and for a good enough price that we don't get ripped off. So we found something we all agree on and the families are happy with so the bonuses are there. Around that we just needed everything to fill that venue, a lot of work but we've finally managed to organise everything in tandem with this house, needs a complete revamp/makeover/whatever makes it look pretty AND the searching still continues, nothing is complete :( why is a house so difficult. It's a crazy thought but a bathtub in the living room and a house on a 2nd floor just cries out for a bob-sled type journey down the stairs but I value my life and we cant keep the tub :| With this we're gonna have the place decorated which is exciting in itself, big job but worth it for a future life. But in between all of that somehow despite being so close together we've just felt lost for two people who have no time for themselves as individuals time as a couple is harder. The phrase a comfort zone comes to mind, when you get so comfortable people can take each other for granted be it friends or family which leads to a lot of strain. I don't preach in these just say what I feel but from what I've heard this year a lot has been damaged because of mistrust and being way to comfortable with someone close to you. To on a brighter note there are a few weddings coming up and for us the most important one :) lots to do look forward to and learn in the next few months. Apart from feeling a lot better now thanks to Priti i can finally take my mind off things, writing blogs works easing the tension in your mind. Well for now that's all I can think of. Thanks for reading if you did any comments let me know :) Take care all and appreciate the ones around you. Life's great joy is making it what you want..... Mihir